Men tend to think they know what women want; what really gets them going? However, women are complex creatures with desires and turn-ons that are somewhat clandestine. Maybe they don’t even know the tiny things that really get their heart racing, but if you want to end the chasing, you need to know how to win her over with these few hidden gems. If you want to move it past the dinner and wine stage to something a little further, it’s always great to have a few tricks up your sleeve to keep the evening going smoothly and to give her the right signals, sending her natural instincts wild for a night of passion.
- Repeating her name
Obviously, you don’t want to go overboard on this as it may come across a little creepy. However, studies show that when you’re talking to someone, if you say their name while keeping eye contact, it shows them you’re interested and listening to their every word. Women love to be listened to and to know that you only have eyes for them. Over dinner, why not drop her name into a few questions: ‘So, Maria, what do you do in your spare time?’, ‘You see, Maria, I find that very interesting…’. This demonstrates that you’re fully captivated by her conversation.
- Touch the small of her back
At the small of the back is a small nodule called the sacrum. This is covered in a cluster of nerves. Although it appears chivalrous and customary for a man to direct a woman by placing his palm on the small of her back, this, in fact, is a subtle invitation, usually unknown to both parties. By touching this area, and gently pressing against it, it stimulates the nerves in this area. These nerves are connected directly to the genital region and therefore send signals to get ready for sexual encounters.
- Whisper in her ear
By talking closely to her, whispering in her ear, it does two things. Firstly, it turns the conversation to something a little more private. Secondly, there are many small hairs along the ear which move when the vibrations of breath touch them. This stimulates the thousands of nerve endings on the ear, which sends signals to the brain and the neck, causing a woman to shiver with pleasure. This is often why women squirt a little perfume just behind the ear; as a mild encouragement.
- Good shoes
It’s not necessarily that good shoes are a turn-on, but ugly shoes are a turn-off. As the old adage goes, you can tell a lot by a man’s shoes. For women, shoes let them know if a man is well-kempt or untidy, up-to-date or falling behind, and where his tastes lie, which we all know shows his tastes in the bedroom. So, beware of Crocs, they do nobody any favors.
If you’re wondering how to get a woman from the dining table to the bed, these are a few swift pointers to really help your game and take her by surprise. A little attention to detail can go a long way in helping you win her over and letting her know your true intentions and the way you want the evening to progress.
